Working with what God gave you

Has anybody ever heard of the term neuveux (spelling?) riche? The idea is you can take someone who is low class in behavior, dress them up in the finest things, and they will still be low class. Have you ever noticed how despite the beautiful things surrounding such individuals, their soul somehow tarnishes it?

It’s sort of the same idea here except think of it in the reverse. Have you ever seen someone who was wearing something that is perhaps not that good in quality of material or style, nor as flashy as what the other girls are wearing but it is still carried with class and elegance?

This is what inner beauty and inner confidence can do when it comes to looking good. The surface is enhanced by an inner warmth that is impossible to categorize into words. Women are well known for their competitive nature when presented with a good looking competitor. Instead of focusing on tearing one another down, women should be trying to uplift one another. This requires humility, which is harder to act upon than it seems.

The sad truth is that a lot of women are extremely insecure. And since it is human nature to be lazy, those very women will prefer to verbally tear another person down rather than look within themselves and attempt to improve themselves. Those who do the latter may not necessarily be the best looking to begin with, but they can at least carry themselves with dignity and grace (how often do you hear these words in the popular media?).

The name of the game that has been forgotten is to work with with what you have. I have a friend who was an ugly duckling growing up-over weight and unhealthy.It took her years to get past the mental blocks preventing her from being able to work with what was given to her. At 18, she grew tired of it and started exercising, eating right, learning about make up, hair and fashion.

5 years later, she is thirty five pounds lighter, run 10 km three times a week, healthy and is happy. Although her looks are average, she can still be well groomed and take pride in that fact while feeling comfortable in wearing heels and skirts everyday. This makes her stand out in a special way. Lord knows her husband appreciates it, and so do the people around her.

The moral of this story: Any old person can allow themselves to be overcome with jealousy to the point that it prevents personal growth. It takes a really strong character to get over it. And lots of women are so hung up over looks that they become their own worst enemies.

And no wonder, it is hard to turn your back on the green eyed monster.Letting go of jealousy requires admitting your own imperfections, breaking yourself down and then actively working on yourself. There is damn good reason why one of the ten comandments is written as Thou shalt not covet.

Jealousy is rotting for the soul.

It leads to stunted spiritual growth.

Jealousy is nothing but a decoy.

Stay far from it, run far from it!

Why the name for this blog?

“Sometimes the majority means that all the fools are on the same side.”

-Mark Twain

Let’s play a little philisophical game. If I randomly ask 100 people if they believe that the world is round, and over %60 say yes, then is it true?

Don’t laugh just yet. This is more applicable than it appears. You see, your laughter about such a preposterous and obvious question wouldn’t be escaping your pretty made-up lips if this was 600 years ago. The ugly truth is that we are naturally ego-centric creatures. It is very likely that 600 years ago, the average person would never stop to think that their own view could possibly be wrong. No, no, no, no. The human ego is far too fragile for that. This is why spiritual enlightenment is usually about the ugly and painful process of eliminating ego and being able to view the world beyond your psychological comfort zone.

Just because it is a common belief doesn’t necessary mean it is factual. There is a very distinct difference between fact and beliefs. Religions are constantly thrashed in the media for being too narrow-minded to consider others. Well, Sisters, this ugly human condition isn’t limited to religion. It is universal.

The sad truth is that we are constantly, as a society, seeking our psychological comfort zone. Women, as the naturally less risk averse sex, are more prone to this than men. Without it, there would be no balance against the risk taking in the wild and the pendulum could have been swung so far that we could have perished. It is natural, then that we are naturally creatures who dislike change.

mis⋅be⋅have /ˌmɪsbɪˈheɪv/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [mis-bi-heyv]

–verb (used without object)

1.	to behave badly or improperly: The children misbehaved during our visit.

–verb (used with object)

2.	to conduct (oneself) without regard for good manners or accepted moral standards: Several of the guests misbehaved themselves.

Yet, what is progress if not a process of change? And that progress is usually delivered in the form of a misbehaving quack who goes against the norm and succeeds wildly with it. In context of this dictionary definition, visionaries are often misapropriately behaving. Nobody likes to be told their worldview is wrong or could be improved upon. Yet, Galileio was correct about the sun being at the centre of our galaxy. Henry Ford was scandalous enough to disregard the horse carriage as an acceptable means of transportation. Newton was an alchemy practicing eccentric who gave us the basis for calculus and mechanics.

Misbehavior isn’t just the realm of women demanding the vote. It is so much more than that, and women need to start embracing change. Not the change that leads to more liberal policies. Not the change that leads to more fathers getting kicked out of families. Not the change that benefits them at the expense of other demographic groups. Women need to start publicly supporting positive change-that kind that can help us get out of this mess.

Risk aversion and gender I

The average woman craves security. Millions of years ago, security meant have a muscular companion who could protect and provide for you during your most vulnerable- the pregnancy. Today, we subconsciously seek these things in various forms-whether it be richer men, older men, thugs in the ghetto or a welfare system generous to single mothers. Women are more risk adverse than men. It is a fact, plain and simple. It is a fact that is rooted in a collective subconscious that is millions of years old.

Men are the natural risk takers. They had to be in order to bring home that wild game from the forest or savannah. Using a newly designed tool for hunting could mean the difference between death and a more efficient method of killing predators. While women on the African savannah would protest that we had enough berries and nuts to consume, the man would silently slink away to figure out how to bring home more meat-even if it is at the expense of his own life.

Together, Man and Woman made a formidible team. They lived and worked together in harmony to ensure that there was a food (energy) surplus to give their tribe a competitive edge over the adjacent ones. Have this game repeated over thousands of years, and you have the beautiful process of human evolution that allowed humans to develop brains and dominance over the animal kingdom.

Balance risk with security, and there is a beautiful thing. Respect one, respect the other equally. Today, this is no longer the case. In the West, security has become valued at the expense of risk. This is no coincidence. Feminism has created an imbalance in the group psyche of the West. The desire for security has overwhelmed the desire for risk taking.

Politically, this is expressed in an ever expanding welfare system and the current expansion of the American government. Government is adopting increasingly socialist policies because the alternative-letting the natural economic cycles run their course- is simply too scary. It is too big of a risk.

Publically, this has led to a media where we are constantly bombarded with fear and near-catastrophic scenarios. Al Gore won a Nobel Peace Award for creating a scare-documentary that is not even scientifically sound in its presented facts.

Instead of allowing children to run outside by themselves, they are coddled, and allowed to sit infront of a TV for hours on end day in and day out because it is safer for them.

We are so afraid of change and of taking risks, that we have forgotten the fundamental characteristic that has given humans the edge over all species- its ability to take risks and innovate. Without this ability to preform under pressure, we never would have made it out of the African Savannah. Tribes would have never prospered in the harsh winters of North America or Europe.

It is in our blood to innovate and take risks.

As the gatekeepers, women need to stop being such pussies and allow risk to naturally take place instead of devoting themselves to feminism and liberal politics that tend lead into larger welfare (more secure) states. Women need to stop viewing men, the natural risk takers, as their enemies and start respecting them. Then together, we can move forward in a more balanced society.

Why Did I Create This Blog?

Because I am angry. The world is in the throes of a financial crisis that took everyone by surprise. It is not a surprise, though. It is a symptom of a human disease called greed. I am angry because the West has become a society infected with complacency. And women are the worst culprits.

Yes.

You heard me.

Women are the worst culprits. I am a woman, and I am ashamed because women tend to be the worst socialists and Marxists. We are often referred to as the gatekeepers of sex. Well, how about the gatekeepers of society? We have stood back and said nothing, done nothing while families break down, while fathers are kicked out of childrens’ lives, while government taxes us to death, while government puts our country into debt, while God and spirituality was kicked out of schools and the home, and while government expands itself and moves our society away from the values of liberty and personal freedom (capitalism) towards a corporate welfare state (statism) and now towards nationalization (socialism).

The West is dying, and as a group women tend to organize well for things such as feminist movement. Except the only women I see out there on the sidelines are the ones complaining about abortion of equal rights.

Wake up!

Society is composed of individual humans. Individually, we are complex creatures. As a group that complexity increases exponentially with each additional personal added to the group. Societal problems can not be overly simplified to things such as abortion and the license to take away half your ex-husband’s things during a divorce. It is far more complex than that.

Women are the gatekeepers. It is time we stood up to kick government out of the family life, get fathers back into the picture, and stop the greed that has over run us as a country.

This isn’t an economic war we are fighting. It is a spiritual one.

Governments are willing to pander to women as a demographic group, so let’s really give them something to sink their teeth into.

Let’s start a new movement.